Hello,

Last week class class showed us some things about parenting when it comes to Japan. We found out that in Japanese families it is common to sleep with your parents until "later age" compared to the perception of other societies about it. Also it is normal, i guess, to spoil your child in a way early on in its life, when it has not developed critical thinking like that, to prevent distress. Which also maybe played a part of creating the "golden emperor" nickname, used for spoiled babies in the ages 0-5.

All of those things got compared to a lot of countries in class. If I have to compare it to Bulgaria I'd say it differs a lot. Kids start sleeping alone early on, if not they mostly sleep with the mom until 1st grade starts, but I am not sure how common this is. I also wouldnt say that children in my home country get spoiled that much, of course you have outliers but they are definetely in the minority. 

The video was very interesting even if it was not the experience most people have (because the mom had her own business). It looked pretty hard to balance both lifes. The mom was busy all day so it is admirable that she manages so well. Also, it was confusing how the dad came back late, ate and went back to the office. How much does he works?

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  1. RobertNovember 10, 2025 at 10:14 PM

    Always a good read. Now I'm suspicious about the dad too.

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